After I had surgery and before I started chemo, I had lunch with a friend who had breast cancer a few years ago. She is now cancer free and I am so happy for her. She said something that stuck with me. She said emotionally, the hard part comes after you are done with all the surgeries and treatments because that is when people stop asking how you are. Some of the people who were so concerned with your health, now don't think about it because you are fine. I think the most ironic part is I haven't heard from her since February. She hasn't once checked in on me to see how chemo was going. Maybe she was preparing me for her own crappy friendship. I haven't experienced anyone caring less about me now that chemo is done. Quite the opposite actually. I had and continue to have such a great support system and amazing group of friends.
Friends
How many of us have them?
Friends
Ones we can depend on
Friends
How many of us have them?
Friends
Before we go any further, lets be
Friends
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